My aunt and uncle invited us to participate in a fundraiser for cancer research this past weekend in Santa Barbara. We had a really nice time. It was just a 5K, and you could walk or job, so I walked the first two miles with my aunt, then jogged the last mile by myself. The past mile was a lot of hills, and kind of difficult, and I found myself thinking about the people in my life who have been affected by cancer. I became emotional as I ran, but it inspired me to push myself. I thought about my grandma, who battled breast cancer twice, and had both breasts removed eventually. I thought about my dad, who also had breast cancer. He underwent intense chemotherapy, which thankfully helped fight the cancer, but left him with severe nerve damage and pain, called neuropathy. He was in a wheelchair for about six months, and was unable to walk or work. He is now able to walk and he works full time as a chaplain for hospice care. He is still in moderate pain all the time and takes a lot of medication to help with that. He rarely, if ever, talks about it or lets you know he's in pain unless you ask. It was so hard to watch both my dad and my grandma go through these battles, but I am so thankful that they both survived. I realize what a blessing that is. Last year, a friend of ours from church passed away suddenly. He didn't even know he had cancer. He left behind his beautiful wife and four children, all of whom I love dearly. His only son was six months old at the time. He will never get to know his amazing dad.
I'm sure that everyone reading this has been touched or affected by cancer in some way, directly or indirectly. It is a terrible disease, and it just seems to be getting worse. I know that cancer research has come a long way, and I hope and pray that someday, cancer is not something to be feared, but a thing of the past.
On a MUCH lighter note, it was a beautiful day in a beautiful place. After the race there was a complimentary breakfast, and we had a great time. I felt especially thankful for my family and the fact that right now, everyone is healthy. That is not something I take for granted anymore!
Here are some pictures...
My mom and my aunt Beezie, my mom's best friend. This was the first time my mom has done anything like this, and she did a great job. She has lost 45 pounds in the past 6 months. Yay Mom!!! I am SO proud of her.
4 comments:
AWesome post! Your grandparents are so sweet! I got emotional just reading your story, and I'm sure it felt good to be DOING something in honor of those special people in your life.
NO her hair does NOT do that on it's own! I'm SO jealous. In some of the indoor pics, her hair looks dark, but in these pics she looks like a blondie! I love Madeline. More pics, more pics!
I loved this post--a little informational, a few pictures, and a lot of your thought processes!Thanks for including us!
I love this post, Steph. It really moved me. Seeing the pictures of your family truly warms my heart. I'm so glad you were able to participate in this walk together. What an amazing way to mark the journey your family has taken and to remember your friend and his family.
Madeline is looking so cute in her hip stroller!
Pushing through the thoughts of those who have fought cancer might even get ME to run... I HATE cancer. And I HATE that it has affected your family. But I am SO glad to see your Dad and the rest of your family looking so healthy and strong. Keep fighting Steph! Keep running! Keep reminding us all to do what we can to help. Love you...
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